Sitting day-dreaming in my primary school class one day years ago, I realised the English teacher was saying something interesting about how you could “fry your friend to the end”.
A striking image for my then fertile imagination … and a good way to remember how to spell “friend”. And better than that old and better-known rule about “the ‘i’ before ‘e’ except after ‘c’”: a “rule” that is cited approvingly when it applies and ignored when it doesn’t.
Rules are often meant to be broken
There are as many examples of it applying – receive, receipt, friend, ceiling, pieces – as it not applying – sufficient, species, weird, seize, deficient, and their. It’s only much, much later I learned that there are two more lines to this rule. The full rule reads:
‘i’ before ‘e’ except after ‘c’
Or when sounded as “a”
As in “neighbour” or “weigh.”
(Mind you, that doesn’t help all that much further, as the examples of weird and seize illustrate).
Since then I’ve always tried to work out other little rules to help me remember the correct spelling to use:
Is it licence or license, practice or practise?
Well, one is a verb and the other is a noun … just like “rice” and “rise” … and surely everyone knows that “rice” is a noun and “rise” is a verb. The same applies to other “ce” and “se” words such as practise/practice, advise/advice …
Examples
The doctor, with no patients to see at his practice, continued to practise his golf swing.
He didn’t want any advice from his partner, and decided to advise him so.
But be careful with vise and vice. They’re both nouns.
Is it “stationery” or “stationary”?
I remind myself that “e” is for “envelope”, a type of stationery; stationary means “not moving” or “immobile”
… confectionery or confectionary?
The first describes the sweets, and the second describes the place where the sweets are made or stored. I’m not sure that the distinction is honoured these days, with most publications opting for the “ery” spelling for both descriptions. And “sweets factory” may be a clearer description for a place where sweets are made.
… principal or principle?
The first means the main person or thing in a collection or community, and the second means a belief or basis of belief by which a person may make decisions. I tell myself the “pal” is a person, principal is a person who is head of an institution. Like the principal (the main man/woman), something could be the main (or principal) event or idea in a series of events or ideas.
… separate, not seperate
And if you can’t remember whether it’s “separate” or “seperate”, just remember to separate the two “e”s




